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Category Archives: Perspectives
Tom Brady: “We have all lost”
Patriots’ quarterback Tom Brady’s sentiments about the ordeal of “Deflategate”, a story and a litigation that needlessly lingered around for seven months, reflects Abraham Lincoln’s sentiments over 150 years ago. Brady’s statement, reported recently in TIME magazine, came after he won his appeal of the NFL’s decision to suspend him for four games for his alleged “general knowledge” about the …
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Why taking the high road to deflate “deflategate” is important
It’s the most talked about dispute in New England and in sports these days. Deflategate. But really, how important is this issue? Whether the league rule was violated and footballs were intentionally deflated to a weight less than the range allowed. On a scale of 1 to 10, 10 being most important, this topic is a 1, if that. Ask …
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Posted in deflategate, patriots, Perspectives, robert kraft
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Is this the best dispute resolution we can do?
A few weeks ago, there was a picture in Time magazine’s “LightBox” section (2/16/2015 issue), depicting the city of Kobani, Syria, days after Kurdish forces had recaptured the city from ISIS. In the picture were the remains of dozens of bombed out buildings in ruin, as far as the lens could reach. There were only two people in the picture, …
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Is this the best dispute resolution we can do?
A few weeks ago, there was a picture in Time magazine’s “LightBox” section (2/16/2015 issue), depicting the city of Kobani, Syria, days after Kurdish forces had recaptured the city from ISIS. In the picture were the remains of dozens of bombed ou… Continue reading
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Situational law: Lessons from Super Bowl XVIX
What do you want your lawyer to be? Hired gun? Technician? Negotiator? Legal Counselor? What determines which lawyer you should hire? Often a person hires a lawyer before thinking about exactly what he needs the lawyer to do. You want the lawyer to “represent” you. But what does that mean? In different situations, lawyer are called on to do different …
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If you and your lawyer really do want to negotiate…
In every dispute a client calls me in to work to resolve, my first inquiry with the other side is to discuss the possibility of early resolution. If we can explore this option even before any litigation has been initiated, it’s even better. The other… Continue reading
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Do our words send the message we want to convey to accomplish what we want?
How often have we said or written something and quickly or soon realized that the message the recipient got was not what we wanted to convey? In the e-communications world, it happens all the time. This disconnect is assisted by the fact that how we co… Continue reading
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True Legal Counselors – Back to the Future
What is a lawyer’s role in serving the needs of his or her clients? What do our clients want from us as their legal counsel? Maybe the better question is this: What do our clients need us to be for them? I’ve given this a lot of thought in nearly 2… Continue reading
Posted in Business, Dispute Resolution Resources, Perspectives, Primary Dispute Resolution (PDR)
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Is it, or are we, really that important?
We often notice things about people and their cell phones, which have now become a body part for many. Continue reading
Posted in Business, Core Values, Perspectives
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Advocacy and the pursuit of interests, without the fighting
We can fully engage in advocacy without engaging in an adversarial approach. It sounds counter-intuitive, but when you think about it, the most clearheaded advocacy comes when the advocates are not shackled by a narrow focus on winning a positional bat… Continue reading
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