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Your “Likes” Can Reveal Your Personality
Recently, I have been conducting some research on what items surrounding a person say about that person’s personality and then I was delighted to see a fascinating study on a related issue addressing people’s likes from Facebook. In essence, the study research what predictive information can be gleened from a person’s “like” of something. The […] Continue reading
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Your Super Powerful all convincing Mediation Statement
So you want persuade the other side or the mediator? Well use more adjectives and you will be amazing in your power of persuasion according to new research. Purdue researchers contrasted the use of adjectives by successful and less successful authors, both in classics and modern books. They found that in both cases, the author […] Continue reading
Posted in adjective, communication, evocative, expressive, language, Mediation, negotiation, persuasion, Pyschological Research and negotiations, research
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If You Are Too Touchy, I Might Get An Angry Feely
Touch is a powerful force in any social interaction. There is much research to demonstrate the beneficial effect of touch. For example, several studies have found that touch can help bond, increase tips, and develop a connection between others. However, recent research has demonstrated that in a competitive situation, touch can be considered negative and […] Continue reading
Lies Can Easily Be The Truth
Many people are shocked and amazed when they find out that the juries are susceptible to lies of unscrupulous experts or witnesses. They often state with incredulity that the truth should come out in trial. Unfortunately, however, the truth doesn’t always come out. Recently, a study from Australia helped to give a better understanding why […] Continue reading
Posted in belief, beliefs, expert, jury, lies, Mediation, negotiation, parties, party, persuasion, preconcieved, Pyschological Research and negotiations, research, Stephan Lewandowsky, truth, witness
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Cell Phones Hurt Communication
Cell phones have revolutionized the way that we communicate. Many people attorneys believe that having a cell phone has made them more efficient and productive. But is there a cost? Can cell phones actually hinder communication. My answer is yes. According to new research from Andrew Przybylski and Netta Weinstein, cell phones can actually harm the interactivity [...] Continue reading
Posted in bond, cell, communication, connectionj, disrupt, disruptive, interrupt, intimacy, Mediation, phone, Pyschological Research and negotiations, research
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The Mediator and the Hare: Story Telling in Mediation
Story telling is a fundamental part of human interaction. From early on, humans communicated through stories. They taught lessons through stories, and they experienced life through stories. Take a look at all religious books — The Bible, the Bhagvad Gita, etc — and they are all stories with a purpose. Behavioral psychologist Susan M. Weinschenk Ph.D. notes: Research [...] Continue reading
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The Imbibing Idiot
Most people in mediation don’t fully realize that many — if not all– of the issues that are in question — liability, damages, cause, effect, consequences, good faith, ability to perform, etc..are affected by the perception that is created throughout the litigation and mediation. The reality is that perception is reality, not the other way [...] Continue reading
Let’s Make A Deal With Bubble Gum
Want to become smarter, even if only for a little bit. Well, I have the answer for you. Chew some gum. Recently a study found that people who chew gum before testing on a subject increased their cognitive function. The study showed that the increase in brain power, however, lasted only for 15 minutes. [...] Continue reading
What Do the End of the Worlders, Austin Powers and Mediation Have to Do With Each Other?
Recently, I was at a soccer tournament recently and a goal keeper saved a goal. At the same time, one of the parents jokingly stated that the Goalkeeper had saved the world. How, I asked. The parent then reminded me that a religious organization had recently professed that the world was going to end on that exact date and time. At that same time, the Goal keeper had saved the goal, and as a result saved the soccer team from total destruction. The next day, the religious organization claimed that they had miscalculated and that the new date was really the end of the world. That world saving goal keeper got me thinking about why people are convinced about their positions and why they don’t change their mind even in the face of overwhelming evidence. That process brought me to the the concept of the Backfire Effect. Continue reading
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